PETER’S PINOY PATTER — July 2024
Bridge Generation News
BG Personality of the Month: Joe Talaugon, 93, Guadalupe CA:
Joe first saw the light of day on October 1, 1930 in a Catholic home for unwed mothers in Ventura CA, the son of Margaret Pima Bejar, a Chumash Indian teenage mother, and an unidentified father. When he was 18 months of age his mother eloped with Arcadio Talaugon, a farm worker from Cebu, Philippines, who adopted Joe. The family would eventually increase by five more children. They were raised in the Visayan culture of their father in houses in Guadalupe CA during the Great Depression, which Joe described as “shacks.”
His first day of school was awkward. When his teacher asked for his name, Joe couldn’t answer. He didn’t know his given name! He was always called Sonny — often the name for the oldest boy in Filipino families. Finally, he came up with Joe — the name his father was called by his friends. Actually, friends called his father Cadjo — short for Arcadio — which when spoken with an accent, he heard as “Joe.”
One evening when Joe was in his teens he overheard his parents arguing. It was about his illegitimate birth. His father had always treated him as a son. In many ways he was treated better than his siblings. But his father apparently had mixed feelings about Joe’s paternity. Joe began remembering — whenever his father was asked by friends if Joe was truly his son, he would say “yes” while other times he would say “no.” Joe became ambivalent about his father. As time went on, however, the pain of rejection lessened. His parents remained together for more than twenty years until 1952, when his mother left after another argument with his father. In 1969, Joe tragically lost his father in a fire at the family farmhouse.
The pain of being rejected by his father may have lessened, but it never went away. When he was in high school, Joe turned to alcohol to escape. He began drinking alcohol in excess after celebrating a football game. Despite being the high school’s star halfback at 150 pounds and in the glory days of an athlete, this marked the beginning of Joe’s alcohol addiction for the next fourteen years. Today, Joe finds it almost impossible he “actually lived those times of awful shame as a pitiful, disgraceful example of a human being.”
Joe is now 93 and has not had a drink for almost forty years, proud that he was able to quit “cold turkey.” Time helped. His acquired spirituality, self-discipline, and skills in blue-collar and farm jobs also helped. However, he attributes the love and and support of his petite pinay wife, the former Margie Cabatuan, for being of most help. Joe met Margie in high school. They went steady until August 25, 1950 when they eloped in Yuma AZ. Joe was drafted into the U.S. Army shortly thereafter. Following basic training, he was assigned to Camp Gordon in Georgia where cheap, home-brewed “White Lightening” was easily obtained from bootleggers.
Despite his drinking, Joe was honorably discharged in the summer of 1953 and began working as a lettuce dry packer alongside more experienced manongs in Guadalupe. Taught by an elderly manong, he became one of the fastest packers in the work crew. Dry packing lettuce, like most farm labor, is long and hard but the pay is much better. Its negative? Joe had to travel — a migratory worker that went to where weather was favorable for growing lettuce.
But a migratory life was not long for Joe. In 1955 he took advantage of the GI Bill and enrolled at a Los Angeles trade school, graduating in 1957 with a certificate in sheet metal work. Life for Joe and his family significantly improved with his increased income and from owning a restaurant in Guadalupe — “Margie and Joe’s Restaurant” — bequeathed by Margie’s Uncle Matas. By 1965, however, construction jobs declined. Moreover, they now had more children. In 1967 Joe and Margie moved to Northern California where Joe was employed in building trades in Stockton and Sonoma County for seventeen years and in a San Francisco printing business for eight years.
As economically significant as was Joe’s NorCal employment, perhaps as significant was Joe and Margie’s immersion into community activism in Sonoma County. In Guadalupe, Joe and Margie saw how decades of isolation and discrimination impacted the manongs, leaving them with little dignity and resources. The Filipino community in Sonoma Country was developing programs for Filipino elderly — Joe and Margie eagerly joined the effort.
Northern California was also spiritually significant for Joe. In August 1988 he learned that a Wintu Tribe Spiritual Woman named Flora Jones was scheduled to lead a three-day celebration at the base of Mount Shasta. This was an opportunity to learn about his Native American side. At the celebration’s final event, he was selected by the Spiritual Woman to sit on the Sacred Circle with five shamans in a special ceremony. The six participants took turns smoking a ceremonial pipe, blowing the smoke towards Mount Shasta while Flora incanted in her native tongue before praying for each of the participants. Joe still recalls feeling “a connection with the Great Spirit” and becoming “filled with pride and inner strength.”
In 1989, Joe and Margie determined it was time for them to return to Guadalupe. They purchased a home on the outskirts of nearby Santa Maria and immediately became involved in the community, including the Central Coast Chapter of the Filipino American National Historical Society. In 1995 Joe was among featured speakers as FAHNS dedicated a plaque commemorating the first landing of a Filipino in America in Morro Bay in 1587.
A member of the Chumash tribe, Joe received a significant windfall in 2003 — gaming income from the new Chumash Casino Resort. With the increase in income, he purchased three buildings in Guadalupe. One became a home for Joe and Margie. The other two buildings housed Margie’s dream for a cultural center — The Guadalupe Cultural Arts and Education Center. Sadly, she passed away before the center was completed. Today, Joe manages the cultural center of four galleries which features monthly exhibits and art shows.
2020 was a notable year for Joe. It was the year his autobiography Mestizo Through My Eyes was published — a book he began writing forty-seven years earlier. The book is not only a story of his life, it also is a story of the struggles of the Manong Generation’s experiences in an often unfriendly America. (The book may be purchased online on mestizothroughmyeyes.net.)
In reflecting upon his life, Joe considers his seven children to be his greatest joy. Coming in a close second was working and living with the Manong Generation — whose experiences have largely been written by authors who never lived or worked with them. (Acknowledgements: Joe Talaugon May 7, 2024 interview; Mestizo Through My Eyes; Wikipedia)
Passings:
Born on March 17, 1928 Demitrio “Jim” Ente, Jr. passed away on May 15, 2024. He served in the military (U.S. Navy) during World War II like so many young men of America’s “Greatest Generation.” Following his honorable discharge, he found employment at the Naval Supply Depot in Stockton where he worked his way to Supply Superintendent before retiring. Jim was the longtime Regional Commandant of American Legion’s Karl Ross Post. ……………. Franklin Urbano Carido of Temecula CA passed away on March 1, 2024 — the youngest of six children of Leon and Camila (nee Labor) Carido. An English teacher and coach, he dedicated 53 years to coaching football at various high schools throughout California. Many of his players were successful in college and pro football.
Pinakbet — News Across America
Filipino American Historical Tidbits:
Before becoming a U.S. colony, Ferdinand Magellan claimed the Philippines for Spain on March 15, 1521. He was killed by inhabitants led by Chief Lapulapu.
Did You Know:
NY Yankee shortstop Anthony Volpe, who began the season ablaze, continues to hit well. At the end of May he was batting a healthy .285.
Musings
From White Supremacy in America, (to) It has Always been about People of Color, (to) Equitable Justice for People of Color, (to) Multi-racial Democracy Weakened, (to) Political/Gun Violence) Part XLVI:
Breaking News:
Democrats ponder next steps in the wake of President Biden‘s poor performance in the June 27 presidential debate against ex-president Donald Trump and Supreme Court’s decision giving partial immunity to a president as long as the action is “official.”
Guilty:
On May 30 a Manhattan jury found Trump guilty of all 34 counts of falsifying business records in his Stormy Daniels criminal trial — making him the first former president in U.S. history to be convicted of a felony.
Unhinged:
Lay persons describe the behavior of the ex-president, convicted felon, and Republican presidential candidate as “unhinged.” Mental health professionals describe him as “sociopathic”, “narcissistic personality disorder”, “pathological liar”, or “psychopathic.” (Wikipedia)
- Sociopathic: Shows no regard for right and wrong, ignores the rights and feelings of others.
- Narcissistic personality disorder: Has an unreasonably high sense of their own importance.
- Pathological liar: Lies compulsively usually for no external gain or benefit, often with detrimental consequences.
- Psychopathic: A personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behavior with a lack of conscience.
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